Scared of being the face? These 6 truth bombs help introverts reframe their fears to help hit their goals. šŸ—£ļø

So I need to come clean yā€™all... I'm an introvert too. šŸ™‹ā€ā™‚ļø

Just thinking about being the face of my business and putting my voice out there makes me want to hide under a rock.

This past week, I finished putting together a workbook for Russell Brunsonā€™s 30 day Fill Your Funnel Challenge.

Every day, Russell shares a key lesson along with action items so you can literally go from ZERO following to flocks of your dream customers visiting your videos and funnels every day.

Holy smokes!! Itā€™s one thing going through for yourselfā€¦

But when you go through it to learn not only for yourself, but for the TENS or HUNDREDS of thousands of people who are about to go through his challenge, eager to fill their sales funnels with TONS of their dream customersā€¦

ā€¦the learning process shifts.

Not only did I need to understand it, but I needed to watch so closely so I could accurately come up with the RIGHT action items theyā€™d need to complete.

But of all his 30 days of video trainings, nothing hit me quite like Russellā€™s next wordsā€¦

ā€œIf you can publish every day for a year, youā€™ll never have to worry about money problems again.ā€

My jaw hit the floorā€¦ HARD!

His words hit me like Odin's ravens dive-bombing into my consciousnessā€¦ it was a feathered assault of wisdom!

It wasnā€™t the first time Iā€™d heard Russell say that phrase.

My thoughts hovered over the last near decade. I had partnered with my ex-wife turned best friend ā€“ who was the face of every venture we undertook.

I was the wizard behind the curtain putting everything together and coming up with ideas for training, while she was the one who was on camera and networking at events.

I had told her about the need to publish daily before, which she didnā€™t find appealing at all (because more success meant sacrificing more time, energy, money, and headspace).

And for years, we continued to grow the businesses on word of mouth and Hail Marys alone.

But even though I knew we needed to do it to grow, I didnā€™t do anything because I wasnā€™t the face.

In some ways, I resented her for itā€¦ convinced she was the reason we werenā€™t growing.

But if I take a good hard look, all I was really doing was telling a story that kept me in a comfortable space of zero riskā€¦

A space where I didnā€™t have to put myself out there, and the success or implosion didnā€™t ride or die on my awkwardness on camera.

(ironically, me not publishing WAS the riskiest thing ever)

But sitting there listening to Russell, I knew that this time around, no one else could be the face.

That role is mine, and mine alone.

And whatā€™s more, my dreams of serving you and tripling my paycheck online won't happen by playing small.

So itā€™s time to face the biggest fears that stand in my way ā€“ all of them related to publishing daily.

Hereā€™s are the "6 Fears of Publishing Daily"... AND how I plan to smash them:

  • FEAR #1 - Rejection or Criticism: I donā€™t love the idea of negative criticism hitting my phone everyday. Iā€™ve tried publishing a few times before, and those kind of comments really got inside my head. So how do you flip the script and not worry about what others are saying about what youā€™re saying and doing? šŸ˜¬

    TRUTH BOMB: Love it or hate it, all publicity is good publicity. Every time a comment shows up ā€“ positive OR negative ā€“ the algorithm on social platforms spike. Whether itā€™s TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, etc. they love it when people engage with content. Thatā€™s the best way the algorithm can tell if content is spreadable. So because people comment on my content ā€“ positive or negative ā€“ they are actually helping me spread my voice and message. And because theyā€™re helping me spread, the people Iā€™m called to serve and help will hear and connect with me. People who will embrace and appreciate what I have to share. So rather than focusing on chasing approval, likes, follows, etc. Iā€™m going to focus on serving and documenting. I donā€™t need to be for everyone.
  • FEAR #2 - Perfectionism: I know me. When I do something I want to do it well. So well in fact that often I ā€œwait for inspiration to hitā€. The only problem is sometimes inspiration can take days, weeks, or even months to fully land. And when I actually DO have the perfect idea, Iā€™ll spend even longer trying to make it perfect. Itā€™s maddening!! I donā€™t look forward to countless hours editing just one video or piece of content. šŸ˜«

    TRUTH BOMB: Being part of Russellā€™s team, I get to see whatā€™s happening in the background behind every launch. Even though we strive to make everything to the best of our ability, we set short deadlines. So even though at the time of launch the product or program is imperfect, it is complete and far enough along that it can make a massive difference in the lives of those using it. We can deliver on the small pieces laterā€¦ but for now, ā€œImperfect and complete will ALWAYS beat perfect but incomplete.ā€ šŸŽØ
  • FEAR #3 - Running Out Of Topics: What if I run out of things to say? Maybe I donā€™t know nearly as much as I think I do? Creators and writers block hits me all the time. So when I consider the possibility that there are going to be days where I have no idea what to share, my hands start to shake. Especially because I have this belief, true or not, that once I get going, this train can never stop. I donā€™t want to burnout and lose momentum.

    TRUTH BOMB: The only thing you need to focus on is making sure your content is thoughtful, relevant, and helpful to your potential customers. If ever you feel stuck, use these ideas to get the creative juices flowing: motivational quotes, wins and losses, life lessons, recommendations, helpful hacks, borrow authority by sharing othersā€™ stories, take a poll, personal life, memes, story posts, ask for feedback or the audience to help you decide, and more. In the end, the best thing you can do is keep showing up and use the fact that you donā€™t know what to share next as your next story.
  • FEAR #4 - Not Getting Enough Views: Allowing strangers a peek into my world freaks me out. But what would feel even worse is what if what I share just isnā€™t interesting to the masses? What if they donā€™t care and donā€™t want to watch? šŸ‘€ What if I spend tons of hours creating content that no one cares about and I donā€™t ever grow?

    TRUTH BOMB: I remember coming across a clip from Garrett J. White for the first time. His combat boots and flippant use of ā€˜F-Bombsā€™ would usually steer me awayā€¦ but for some reason I was captivated. ā€œYouā€™re going to suck. Youā€™re going to suck real bad at first. What youā€™re going to find over time though is that eventually youā€™re going to suck less. And eventually, you might even get to the point where youā€™re actually good.ā€ If it turns out that I donā€™t get that many views, thatā€™s actually great for me! Because right now, I suck at it. But eventually, by the time I get good at it, Iā€™ll also get good at attracting people who resonate with me. My tribe! Keep going until you actually get good at it. šŸ§˜ā€ā™‚ļø
  • FEAR #5 - Imposter Syndrome:Ā Even though Iā€™ve been in online businesses for a decade, I always convince myself that I donā€™t know much. Thereā€™s always something to learn, and with technology and trends always shifting, I convince myself more than ever that thereā€™s always something new to learn. And because thereā€™s so much to learn, who am I to teach other people and show them a path forward? Surely there must be someone better suited and more knowledgeable than me that can do that.

    TRUTH BOMB: The truth though is that rather than inexperience being a detriment, itā€™s actually your superpower! The fact that you are going through something new right now ā€“ a path that others will tread after you ā€“ the better suited you are to fully understand where theyā€™re coming from because you were there far more recently than someone whoā€™s been at this for years. Youā€™re going through similar struggles as your audience and therefore your solutions will be far more impactful and helpful than someone whoā€™s disconnected. And at the end of the day, all you need to do is stay a step ahead of your audience to show them the way.
  • FEAR #6 - Being Glued To My Phone: Whether itā€™s people who are close to me or total strangers online, I genuinely want to help. But one thing I really donā€™t like is messaging people. In my past businesses, I would message people back and forth, then eventually get on a phone call. As I get ready to launch my next thing, I know that people are going to reach out to me. But because I have a full time job, I donā€™t have the time to get back to everyone. And even if I had full days to get back, I donā€™t want to because I donā€™t want to be stuck messaging people one on one. Thereā€™s got to be a more efficient way where I can save my time AND give them massive value. Right?

    TRUTH BOMB / STRATEGY:Ā Iā€™m going to figure out how to use A.I. and automated messages to give massive value, answer questions, and direct people to next steps. Iā€™ll also have a spot where they can ask their questions and I can publish my answer to everyone. Fun bonus, I can build a list of unlimited topics that will continue to grow and refresh. Iā€™ll also find out what the most common questions are.

No lie, putting yourself out there to grow a business, no matter how simple, can be scary and uncomfortable.

But I know that as I focus on serving my audience with authenticity, the platform I create will allow me to create the income and impact I dream of. ā©

So, rather than playing small to avoid criticism, it's time to boldly and vulnerably share my voice.

For sure, Iā€™m going to suck at it in the beginning. But over time, as I keep showing up, eventually I wonā€™t, and I may end up actually getting pretty good at it. šŸ’Ŗ

You owe it to your future self and loved ones to push past self-doubt and take inspired action daily, even when afraid.

Your time is now! šŸ™Œ

- Eric Thomas

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